Relationship between 'Parents & Children'

   Hey what's up people! Today, I'm going to blog about

''PARENTS & CHILDREN'S RELATIONSHIP''

Hope you readers are doing fine out there! 

Before we go further, I'll be dividing this topic into

3 different parts.

The basic elements required in a family

The problems that family usually faced

Solutions

So for the start, let's go through the everyday life a family would have to face.

Please do take note that all this are based on what I've learnt and observed throughout my 21 years of life. 

If there's any different opinions, please feel free to comment below or pm me personally at my Facebook. Thanks dear readers :)

PART 1

  First of all, when a married couple has settled down, they would definitely want to start a family of their own by having at least 1 child first right?

 And then the moment when their first child is born, they not only would feel happy and contented  but at the same time, 

they would be more than overwhelmed to have their child held closely in their arms, and that their first born baby means the whole world to them. 

Everyone wishes to have a 'perfect family', but is there really such things as ''PERFECT family''? 

Well, in my personal opinion, based on what I have learnt throughout my whole 21 years of life, seeing other friends of mine and outsider's life, no matter how much

we longed for a perfect family, there is just no such thing as ''PERFECT family'' BUT 

here it goes...

This picture says it all. As a family, we cannot expect perfections from one another. God created us DIFFERENTLY in his own image. 

We're all human beings with  different attitudes, personalities, characteristics.

That's why we're unique because no one can be exactly 100% like us. Therefore, in life, there's a thing called 

( TWO - way communication )

( Understanding )

( Spending time together )

( Give & take )

Last but not least, to me personally, I find this very important because parents nowadays hardly do so which is that your children's opinion are very important too.  

Although you may think that they're still so young, but regardless of anything, as a parent, I know you want whats best for your children but hey, hearing out their opinions wont kill your time right?

 In fact, not only you'll know what amazing children they've grown up to be but at the same time, you'll get to understand them more. Know them deeper and in what aspects they're coming from.

And yes of course, they will still respect you as their parent no matter what but again, no parents is perfect right?

 At times, as we get older, we do need some opinions & thoughts from our children too. And they came from you. So be proud and appreciate them for who they've grown up to be. 

Why two - way communication, understanding one another, spending time & give and take plays very important roles in a family?

Well, if you would come to think about it, usually arguments that starts in a family is because one of them is really stubborn while another holds the ego that he/she is right in everything and they cannot seem to give in and take in that particular argument and both shows their tempers.

There are many other ways that an argument could start off to so that's one of the example I'm giving out.

 Besides all that, when a parents holds their authority towards their children.

For example, EVERYTHING they say has to be right

and they will not give a minute to hear out to their children's opinion, then where's the proper 

TWO - WAY communication in a family then? 

To dear parents out there, I'm not pointing fingers at anybody's family but I do hope as parents, you know where I'm coming from.

At times, you just got to let your ego down in some situations. Knowing that no parents are perfect. We learn from our own mistakes and improve from there, to be a better parent. Isn't that way better?

 Compared to arguing about a particular matter, knowing that whatever your children said does make sense but simply because of your ego, you choose not to listen and eventually, cold war starts for a couple of days or even weeks.. 

Why make this happen when as a family, you can actually solve it in just one night? 

Therefore, hearing out your children's opinion is really important, and then there comes

 understanding and spending time together along with give & take situation.

When families starts to really take time and spend it together, 

you'll be able to know more about what your children is going through in their daily growin up life, 

and then it comes with understanding the problems or peer - pressure that they're facing nowadays in the society because a lot has changed in the many past years and 

then comes with give & take attitude and last but not least, proper communication.  

 If this 5 basic elements can actually be practised in a family's everyday life, I can assure that there will be lesser arguements and more of understanding one another in different parts of your own family issues. 

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Last but not least, if there are any other opinions, please do leave me a comment below or just pm me personally.